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Tuesday, October 23, 2012

Eli's 3 month Post

Better Late Than Never...

Eli at 3 months!
You are:
-All Smiles (Keep that joy little man. The Lord will shine through you and your smile will brighten so many spirits along the way!)
-tipping the scales at 12lbs 6oz
-wearing a size 3mo clothes and size 2 diapers
-rolling over from tummy to back with ease (mainly to avoid sleep :-)
-sleeping from 8pm-6am
-eating 4oz every three hours during the day
-letting out a tiny low pitched giggle
-loving your Paci at nap and bedtime(I gave in to avoid thumb sucking)
-hating the car :-(
-going to school with Em'ry and loving Ms. Nancy

The hardest thing I've experienced this month is going back to work. I'm missing you so much while I'm working:-( I know that one day you'll understand that I would much rather spend my days with you and Em'ry but daddy and I are working very hard to make a wonderful life for our family. We love you and Em'ry more than words can express!

Sunday, August 26, 2012

Growing boy!

Today Eli is 2 months old!

We are having so much fun watching you grow little man!

What we want you to know about this past month and what we want to remember:
-You weigh 12 lbs 3 oz
-Wearing a size 2 diaper and 3 mo clothes
-Eating every 3-4 hrs during the day
-Sleeping from 8pm-2am before waking up hungry
-You LOVE to sleep on your tummy
-Sucking on your hand at times to soothe
-Rarely take a pacifier
-You are still ALL smiles!
-You and Em'ry are best buds already
-Those eyes are still BLUE
-You started going to Ms Nancy's with Em'ry and are doing great
-You want to be held up so you can see the action :-)
-You have rolled over twice!
-Lots of cooing and "singing"
-You love being outside and our nightly trips to feed the ducks
-Mommy took you for your first swim and you fell asleep
-We love you more every day!

Friday, July 27, 2012

Getting acquainted with Eli Duke

It's hard to believe we have had Eli home for a month! Yep, the little dude is a month old!

Here are a few things I want to remember about this special time:

  • You are a happy little guy and save your best smiles for Em'ry.
  • You have gained 3lbs since birth! Weighing in at 10lbs and measuring 20 1/2 inches.
  • Your eyes are still BLUE! What?!?
  • You are eating every 3 hrs during the day and every 4 hrs during the night.
  • You are very strict about bedtime and cannot keep those little eyes open past 8!
  • You sleep from 8pm to 7am and take three 2hour naps during the day.
  • You love to sleep in the Nap Nanny at night and nap on your tummy during the day.
  • You look JUST like Daddy :)
  • You are so mellow and don't mind just going with the flow.
  • You have visited: Splashway Waterpark, the Library, Em'ry's Dance studio, Kegg's Candy Factory, several restaurants, and spent lots of time at Uncle and Aunt Brandi's house watching everyone swim.
  • White Noise is your best friend ;)
We love you so much little guy and are so excited to watch you grow!

Wednesday, July 25, 2012

The first days as four...

We arrived home as a family of four on Wednesday, June 27th eager to start living it up right where we left off. Em'ry is a great big sister and is eager to help as well as make sure that Eli is immune to excessive noise ;)












We had a smooth transition and I was reminded how amazing Greg is as a husband and a daddy. From the day we arrived home, he has been up in the night, cooked, cleaned, and most importantly gone the extra mile to entertain Em'ry.
With family in town, we wanted to capitalize on our time together so we loaded up the cars and the entire family spent the first Saturday of Eli's life at Splashway Waterpark in Sheridan. I know most of you will think I'm crazy for taking a newborn to a waterpark but the weather was ideal and Eli did great. It was about 80 degrees with light showers which made for perfect conditions to sit under the canopy and watch all the fun!
We also celebrated the 4th of July with swimming, a cookout, and an amazing Fireworks show!
Since the visitors have faded, Greg and Em'ry have been staying busy fishing, visiting the Children's Museum, going to the park, working out, and doing just about whatever Em'ry says lol... This time, although I'm quite sure has been exhausting for Greg, has been great for there relationship.
 
Summer is flying by but we are making the most of every day!

Monday, July 16, 2012

A Birth Story Part II

A little different story than when Em'ry was born. We scheduled an induction so that we could be sure to have help with Em'ry while we were in the hospital. Not that my sisters aren't tons of help but Em'ry was a little (read extremely!) clingy towards the end of the pregnancy and refused to spend the night with anyone but Nana.
I was scheduled for induction and checked into Memorial Hermann at 9pm on Monday June 25th. Thank you to my parents who came down that weekend and took Em'ry and the girls to Sea World SA on Monday.
Greg and I settled in for the night and played Words with Friends and watched The Golden Girls to pass the time:-) I was only dilated to 1cm when I was admitted so we were worried that it would be a long, hard labor. The nurse reassured us that all would be fine. She started the pitocin at 3am but I was able to sleep well. At 7am, Dr. Burroughs came in to break my water and it didn't take long for labor to come on full force. I was lucky enough to have back labor AGAIN! Ugh...
I asked for an epidural around eleven o'clock and received it about the time I was dilated to 5cm. I was still having a pretty relaxing day and Brandi came by to chat around noon.
Eli Duke was born at 1:49pm. He immediately let us know that he was much happier in the womb but slowed his wails to a whimper when placed in my arms. He weighed 7lbs 1oz and was 18in long.
A huge thank you to Jana for being present again to take the first pictures of Eli's life. And, a huge thank you to my mom who although I'm sure was dying to be in the room took one for the team and stayed with Em'ry in the waiting to make sure she didn't get too anxious.
As soon as I had an opportunity to nurse our little guy, Greg went out to get the Big Sister and introduce her to Eli. She was ecstatic and from what I understand, she did a lap around the waiting room before joining her daddy with wide eyes ready to meet her little brother. Boy was she proud! She immediately climbed into my bed and after a few questions about his belly button :) asked to hold him. She was a natural. You could see the love radiate in her eyes and through her smile. To this day she is pretty proud that she held her brother before anyone else including her daddy. Greg was so sweet and supportive of me and Em'ry and it was so special that he gave her that chance. She'll remember that moment forever!
After Em'ry had her chance to get acquainted, she agreed to invite the others in so that they could meet her baby brother. So, in small groups, the visitors trickled in. Nana, Mimi, Hailie, Kayley, Aunt Brandi, Papi, Grandad, and Uncle Corey were all waiting in the lobby when Eli was born. So sweet of them to be there to celebrate! Later in the afternoon, Uncle Matt and Savreet stopped by to visit and Cesar finally got meet the little man that evening.
God is so good! We had an amazing experience from the nurses to the facilities to the support, love, and prayers from family and friends. Thank you so much to all of you who prayed, for all the warm wishes, and for welcoming Eli into the world. We are truly blessed!

Friday, June 22, 2012

Birth Story Part I-Em'ry Dove

As we anxiously await the birth of our second child, I can't help but think back on excitement that brewed as we welcomed our baby girl into the world 3 1/2 years ago. I feel it's only fair to record her story before we embark on the next one.
After having a full house over the Thanksgiving holiday, we said our good-byes and our families headed out. Some back to Booker and others making the long haul back to Houston. Everyone but my mom that is. It was a Saturday afternoon, and I had been contracting quite a bit throughout the morning so I convinced her to stay without filling her in on how I had been feeling. Basically I just begged.
We were living in Edmond at the time and with a few last details to finish the nursery, mom and I set out to find a few more girly accessories. As we got back into the car after leaving The Market, my mom acknowledged that I was not feeling well. So, I filled her in on why I asked her to stay. We ran a few more errands and headed back to the house to relax and watch the OSU/OU Football game. Greg and I were Season Ticket Holders at the time but gave the tickets away since the game fell on Em'ry's due date. We enjoyed the game from the comfort of our couch and I began timing my contractions. As the game finished up, Greg quickly put up our Christmas lights in the dark. It's comical now how determined he was to get them up before we headed to the hospital because he didn't want to miss time with her once she arrived. He is so sweet.
Around 11:30, my contractions had been about 5 minutes apart for about an hour and moved to three minutes apart. We packed our things and headed to Lakeside Women's Hospital. I remember joking in the car that I would probably be one of those women who came in on a false alarm. When we arrived, a nurse took us back to evaluate me and found that although I was having strong contractions every 3 minutes I was only dilated to 2cm. She asked me to walk around the halls of the hospital. After walking for thirty minutes, my contractions continued and I was dilated to 3cm.
Dr. Sears was contacted and I was admitted sometime after midnight. Around 3:30am, I received an epidural and was able to relax. Apparently, the epidural slowed my labor and although I was able to rest, Greg and my mom waited without sleep and worried all night. I do remember being sick on occasion because the nurse repositioned my bed and having back pains. The next morning, Dr. Sears came in and broke my water and then we waited some more. Again, I was sleeping mostly but Greg was exhausted from the long night.
When the nurse checked me around 3pm I was ready to push but unfortunately Dr. Sears had been called to deliver twins so we had to wait. Finally, a little after 4pm, Dr. Sears arrived and I was thrilled since my back was killing me!
At 4:26pm, Sunday, November 30th, 2008, Em'ry Dove made her appearance and made me a mommy!
She is perfect! Em'ry weighed in at 6lbs 4oz and measured 18in long. I am so thankful to Jana who came in sometime during the day and took the amazing first photos of Em'ry. After being weighed, cleaned up a bit, and a short stint on the warming bed with oxygen, she was placed in my arms to nurse and did so without hesitation.
We became a family of three! It felt better than I could have ever imagined. Greg fell in love at the first sight of our baby girl and I'm so thankful for his support through the delivery. We were dying to show her off and the time had come. The hospital was full of people who had come to welcome Em'ry into the world and into the family. Thank you to each person who prayed, visited, sent well wishes, and just loved on us during this precious time.

Wednesday, June 13, 2012

The Great Road Trip of 2012!

We had the great privilege of sharing the day with Blair and Stephen as they became Mr. and Mrs. Skipper this past weekend. It was a blast and the drive was definitely worthwhile!

My physician was not thrilled with the idea of me traveling 11hrs in the car at 37wks pregnant, but I let her know missing this was NOT an option ;)

Well, we made it! Em'ry was the flower girl and took her job very serious. I felt honored to be able to support Blair as a bridesmaid. She was a beautiful Bride and we enjoyed both the wedding festivities and the weeklong visit to Booker.

It is so sweet to watch Em'ry run and play with all of the kids of the family! Long lost cousins who become quick friends and have a blast together. We have been working really hard to build her social confidence as she tends to be clingy and shy. She played hard and tuckered out early, sleeping in my arms not phased by the music and noise :)

Now we are home finishing up the last minute details before Eli makes his arrival. As we laid in bed last night, the last words out of Em'ry's mouth were, "Praise God! We are back in Richmond!" It's so true. As much fun as it is to travel, its always feels good to come home :)